Greetings, I am Denise Watson-Smith, a Licensed and Ordained Minister and a Certified Christian Life Coach. I am married with 4 children, I have a beautiful daughter-in-love and 4 amazing grandchildren. I received my Bachelors Degree from Liberty University in Religion and my Master of Divinity Degree from Liberty Theological Seminary in Pastoral Studies. I received my certification to be a Christian Life Coach and a Certified HIScoach™ in addition to becoming a Certified Christian Pre-Marital and Marital Coach through HIScoach Training Academy. One day, I started a journey in life to begin to work on me. I had gotten to a place of feeling unworthy, tired, frustrated, unfulfilled and the truth is, I just did not love me. I loved who I was for others, but I did not love me for me because I did not see the necessity in me. I was always looking for validation in others, wanting to hear just how much I mattered to others or shall I say, to my family. I wanted to hear my husband tell me how much I mattered to him and my children tell me that I mattered to them. And when those words did not come, I did not see how I even mattered to myself. I was miserable, hurt, broken, being accountable to those who may someday just walk away but not having any accountability to myself. I then had to stop and ask myself the question, what will happen if those that I am accountable to would just walk away, who would be there to hold me accountable; where would my accountability come from; I was so busy being what everyone else needed me to be that I forgot to be who I needed to be. I was busy living for others that I forgot to live!!! The thing is, there is nothing wrong with having accountability to others, it’s when you neglect you in the process. So I made a decision, #iamaccountabletome! And from that, LIFE happened!!! Now let me help you become accountable to you!
Victor A. Smith II
Victor is the Marketing Director for Becoming You Christian Life Coaching. Victor was born in Roanoke, Va., and grew up in Charlottesville and Virginia Beach, Va, due to his father being in the military. Victor is the father to Kaden and Cairo. He is a tremendous asset to the BYCLC family and we’re excited to see all that God has in store for him as he grows with us while helping to grow us!